By Ndizeye Rubasha, Rubasha Family Podcast
In today’s world, names carry a lot of weight.
They represent our identity, culture, and heritage.
However, many of us still carry the remnants of colonialism in our names. It is shameful to be called colonial names. Let’s explore why shedding these colonial names is crucial for reclaiming our identity and pride.
The Legacy of Colonial Names
A Brief History
Colonial names were imposed on us during the dark times of colonization.
Our ancestors were stripped of their cultural identities. They were given names that were foreign, names that didn’t resonate with their souls.
Loss of Identity
These names have stayed with us for generations. They have become a part of us, but not in a good way.
They remind us of a time when our people were oppressed and dehumanized. Carrying these names means carrying the weight of colonial history.
Why It’s Time to Change
Reclaiming Our Heritage
Changing our colonial names is a powerful act of reclaiming our heritage.
It is a statement that we are proud of who we are. We are proud of our culture, our traditions, and our history.
Honoring Our Ancestors
By shedding these colonial names, we honor our ancestors. We acknowledge their struggle and sacrifice.
We reconnect with the names they were forced to abandon.
The Power of Names
Identity and Self-Worth
Names are more than just labels. They shape our identity and influence our self-worth.
A name rooted in our culture boosts our confidence and sense of belonging. It tells the world who we are and where we come from.
Cultural Connection
A traditional name connects us to our culture in ways a colonial name never can.
It carries the stories, the values, and the spirit of our people. It’s a constant reminder of our roots.
Practical Steps to Reclaim Your Name
Research Your Heritage
Start by researching your heritage. Learn about your ancestors.
Discover the traditional names and their meanings. This knowledge will empower you.
Choose a Name with Meaning
Select a name that resonates with you. Choose one that has a significant meaning.
Make sure it reflects your identity and heritage.
Legal Process
Changing your name legally might seem daunting, but it’s worth it.
Research the process in your country. Gather the necessary documents. Take the legal steps to make your new name official.
Embracing Your New Identity
Introducing Your New Name
Once you’ve chosen your new name, start using it. Introduce yourself with pride.
Explain the meaning and significance to others. This will help you and others adjust to the change.
Updating Your Records
Update your name on all your official documents.
This includes your ID, passport, bank accounts, and social media profiles. It’s a tedious process, but it’s essential for consistency.
Celebrating Your Heritage
Embrace your new name fully. Celebrate it. Use it in all aspects of your life.
Share your journey with others. Encourage them to consider reclaiming their names too.
Overcoming Challenges
Resistance from Others
Not everyone will understand your decision. Some might resist or mock your choice.
Stay firm. Remember why you’re doing this. It’s about your identity, not their approval.
Internal Struggles
You might face internal struggles too. Changing your name is a significant step. It can be emotionally challenging. Seek support from friends and family. Join communities of people who have gone through similar journeys.
The Impact of Reclaiming Your Name
Personal Empowerment
Reclaiming your name is empowering. It strengthens your connection to your roots.
It boosts your confidence and self-esteem. You feel more grounded and authentic.
Inspiring Others
Your journey can inspire others. By reclaiming your name, you set an example.
You show others that it’s possible to break free from colonial legacies. You encourage them to embrace their true identities.
Conclusion
It is shameful to be called colonial names. These names are remnants of a painful past.
Reclaiming our traditional names is a powerful act of self-love and cultural pride. It honors our ancestors and reconnects us with our heritage.
The journey might be challenging, but it is worth every step. Embrace your true identity with pride and encourage others to do the same.
Are you ready to reclaim your name? Start your journey today. Research your heritage. Choose a meaningful name. Go through the legal process.
Embrace your new identity. Share your journey with others. Let’s break free from the chains of colonialism and celebrate our true selves.
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